That statement will be regarded as pursuing wrt DBing, and the "i love you" statement is supposed to be a no-no, but sometimes one has to go with your gut. If your H is in MLC, then it won't matter what you say or do. So, IMHO, if you need to say it, for your sake, then say it. He may laugh at you, or hear something else ... I don't know, MLCers are strange.
Give it 48 hours to think about, and consider if it's worth it or not. If you do go ahead, be prepared to hear a lot of negativity from him. Also, if you do say anything, make sure you mention that it doesn't mean you will do anything stupid for him. You love him, not emotionally enslaved by him.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
