He is a bully with the underlying fear and cowardice of a typical bully.
Yes, he is big on intimidation. But if he is so stupid as to get ugly, he will lose his S eventually.
I have been tempted to go speak to his parents. They are good people, have NO idea what he is really like, and I have been wanting to spare them the "gory details", but feel he is going to alienate his S and this may affect them as well...
They had some ugly words for me in the beginning--money grubber was my moniker from his mom! Didn't matter that when I met him he was $30 thousand in debt! and I owned my own home, which I sold, and put the profit into this home.
I had my suspicions about the home thing too--and I had him put in writing that his intention is for me to keep the home. My L tells me this may be helpful.
His parents are in their 70s, but YOUNG 70s. I have gone back and forth on this one for weeks. To them, he is thier "perfect doctor son". Ugh!! (and he is not a doctor! he is a PA!! That is irritating too!!)
What do you think Kat? and D4M?? I think part of making the foundation crumble is exposure. My H has a lot of false pride.
