I'm back and looking for insight

[kat727]

I think people like your H like to think they will intimidate you and give you little to nothing for all of your time in the marriage. You didn't say but I expect he will be trying to get the house too.

If he relates to tough then so be it. I am so sorry that you have to go through this. Just remember if you want to rebuild your marriage, the old foundation will have to be demolished before you can rebuild.

kat