Little comment about people not wanting me to be with WH:
Saw a coworker that I haven't seen since last year. She accidentally let it slip that she heard that I would do counseling with WH. She was like 'why'? I explained but it just shows that word is getting around!
I wish I could just take a microphone and say: Guys, this isn't like he and I were dating or anything. We were married for a long time and we have a baby together! Not only that, but our married life was GOOD (tho it had problems) and it's not like I'm trying to get back with an abuser or anything!