Crazy couple of weeks, but things going well...W did go on her trip to "OM land" (yes, she has a # of female friends in the city there) and was transparent about what she was doing there with me (and, as an aside, did tell me that when she had cut all contact off with OM (told him she was shutting down the FB page), he told her he has "moved on" and is dating someone else)...
Who knows what to believe at this point, but it does seem like she's fully "back" now and out of her post-A "fog"...I'm still detaching pretty well and she's reaching out to me quite a bit (calling me at work daily to "see how it's going", soliciting conversations on my day, work frustrations, etc.).
In addition, she's now buying ADHD books to try and finally "figure that out", and I'm realizing in reading some ADHD sites (especially www.adhdmarriage.com) that's a HUGE issue in our relationship.
Feeling as good about myself as I have in a long time, and I think that's helping with our relationship, which seems to be finally going OK. In addition, she's expressed a willingness to answer any ?s I have about the A (which she wasn't really willing to do previously). We're going to have a few days alone starting tomorrow (kids going to grandma's house for their "last blast" before school starts up at the end of the month) and may start asking some of my lingering ?s.
