Hey there D4ML, I have to say I think you have a good shot also. But I can see why you are having doubts.
You are over in the Infedelity board and the person you are posting with is FANTASTIC at affairs and exposure (and I get that you needed to check that out--I did as well), but honestly, he has you going over and over your sitch and rehashing all the old stuff from MONTHS ago, and it isn't going to be helpful.
It's keeping you stuck. I know you want to be validated about all that stuff, but the old saying keeps popping up in my head: Do you want to be right? or do you want your H...
You stick with doing the work and there is NO WAY you will have the same R. It's just impossible. And you cannot say what it will be in the future and no one else can make that prediction either.
So please, you are doing great, but I see some major steps back over there and I don't think it's helping you at all. They are a little cynical over there (do you blame them!?!) and I just think it's best you stay here--or lurk in peicing now. You want to keep your hopes up and keep positive--I think you can do this!!
