Originally Posted By: Bobby
I do not know if it is too late or not but I will continue to work on me and hope for the best.


Bobby if you believe in your heart...

If you have hope.

Anything is possible.

For now, let her go.

Remember this

Originally Posted By: Bobby
My wife said that I had been controlling during our marriage and that I would not enlist her help for solving problems.


The complete opposite would be to respect her space by letting her go...

Action. Or inaction actually but it will show her.


Originally Posted By: Bobby
What I meant to say that I do feel alot of resentment and anger.


Read the stages of the LBS that Cadet gave you.

You will go through your own Metamorphisis here (nickel Kafka)

And you must do that ON YOUR OWN.

Believe me the farther you step away from this the more in focus it will become.

And you will find answers.

But they will be for questions you don't even know to ask yet.

Have you begun to understand detachment yet?

That is the first step.

None of this will move forward until you get there.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am