To her, they are just words. She's heard so much from you the last two months (and earlier) that they won't sink in. That's why you have to not only say the script, but follow it action wise. I've backtracked 3 times after giving her the script, partially because I've been weak, partially because I've let her control me to keep her soft cushion landing intact.
See the ball, be the ball. Really let go.
If you need inspiration, read Officer In Need's thread, especially the comments by Gucci... It's tough medicine, and very hard to swallow. But you don't have much choice now.
