John. Listen to what Sandi is saying. We've both lost 2 months of our lives in totally unproductive activity. Perhaps we have to go through this pain to get beyond our marriages, but enough is enough for both of us. They're gone. They've checked out months ago. We don't know them anymore, they are not the same as when we married them. We've been clinging to a memory of our loving relationships that probably never existed except in our minds.
Your son needs you. Needs a strong man to show him what it is to be a man. Read Wild at Heart to see how important a good father is to a son.