That's just it. He felt anxiety and it was due to work. The anxiety caused his blood pressure to jump and he said he felt chest pains. The doctor asked him to take time off work and what did he blame? His marriage. Thats why he said that the longer he said married, he was going to die so in order to save himself, he had to hurt the one he loved.

I'm thinking ... You're still married to me and you're not dead yet. I'm waiting for u to croak. Their family is so obsessed with death. His mom reminds him that he looks exactly like his grandfather .. Oh and he died of a heart attack at 42. My h is 40. Why can't she just shut up about death?