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Re: Calling all affair annihilators & boundary set
Steve McQueen #2060268 08/20/10 08:57 PM
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SM,
The best book there is!

Me: 34
H: 34
DD: 3
M: 8 yrs
H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you"
PA Bomb: April 5, 2010
Re: Calling all affair annihilators & boundary set
courts0818 #2060418 08/21/10 12:48 AM
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Perhaps that is why H is having a hard time talking about the A? He feels guilty. If things work out, he'll probably reveal more with time.

The counselor sounds like a good idea.
Re: Calling all affair annihilators & boundary set
TulsaTime #2060615 08/21/10 03:24 PM
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I really don't know if things are going to work out. We've had countless ups and downs recently and I'm totally burned out on living life this way.

I'm looking for a counselor bc I've become so bitter and angry. All this pent up anger and pain is really taking a toll on me that's why I'm looking for books on letting go, forgiving, etc.

Just looking for help to heal.

Thanks : )

Me: 34
H: 34
DD: 3
M: 8 yrs
H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you"
PA Bomb: April 5, 2010
Re: Calling all affair annihilators & boundary set
courts0818 #2062582 08/24/10 09:30 PM
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courts,
Originally Posted By: courts0818
Anyway, I was wondering if anyone can recommend a really good book on forgiveness.
Radical Forgiveness by Colin Tipping.

The Art Of Forgiving by Lewis B. Smedes

"To forgive is to set a prisoner free
And discover that the prisoner was you."
Lewis B. Smedes

Peace,

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac
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