Thanks,everyone!

I was feeling a little "nervous" about the WOA but it felt right.

And it didn't 'feel' like being pursuing or melty. I had already been about halway through the thread on Srength and Loving and that's how the day felt.

I can now also see two more things-

-The Guuci post that Steady reposted there regarding "quite often, you can't be strong AND loving" helped me a lot
-ending my convo with WOA likely shows her that I can be both strong and loving but not always at the same time.

Thanks again guys.

Womka- I'll see what I can do about sheets today.