I have a plan for money: personal loan that my dad is going to co-sign because my credit sucks and I can't get a loan on my own. I did consult with an attorney, if I remember correctly she said the grounds of adultery shouldn't be too difficult to prove should I choose to go that route. I don't know if H will contest or not. I am thinking yes because he wants it filed on grounds of constructive abandonment but then he may be so eager to divorce that he's willing to accept whatever gounds I use.
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