I have spent the last several days doing housework and just staying busy. I have remained busy and have been polite like I would be to a friend around my wife. Today, my wife said I was nice, but was it the calm before the storm. I believe the storm is the anger that has been building up all these months. I remained silent and just listened. My wife said that I had been controlling during our marriage and that I would not enlist her help for solving problems. She was right but I just listened and said nothing. She told me she was moving out and that she hoped to move out in the several weeks once she finds a place. She asked me about my lawyers and I told her I had notified the lawyers I was not filing. She says she is filing but do not know that to be true or if she is saying it to be sure I know what she means. She begins classes and I am sure that will consume her time. I told her I could take Katie around today to give her time to do what she has to. For me, I believe my anger has been a problem to control with all of this going on. In any case she has seen a change and I hope to keep it consistant and just hear what she says. I do not know if it is too late or not but I will continue to work on me and hope for the best. Bobby O
