That we need to be around each other in some way, or family vacation at XMAS is going to be rough.
Do you really think she wants to go on vacation with you?
Why do you want to go on vacation with her?
IS this really letting her go?
I don't know how she feels about the vacation, other than the last time we spoke she still wanted to go as a family.
I still want to go as a family as well. We managed to do it last year only days after she moved out, so I think we can do it again this year. As for letting her go, by then I hope I have let her go completely and that it will show by my actions that week.