You sound very strong, L4S, but I too am really sorry this didn't turn out the way you wanted it to. I only have a moment, as I have to head to the ballfields for tryouts (I coach my son's team), but I wanted to tell you that you never know what the future may hold.
True story: Yesterday, I had lunch with a woman who used to work for me, who wanted to take me to lunch to thank me for some business I had sent her way. We had a fun time catching up, swapping some lies, and generally gossiping about all the old gang we used to work with, lol.
She kept talking about her husband, and her family, and how happy they all were. "I thought you got divorced years ago?" I asked her. "We did, but after a couple of years, we got back together, and we've never been happier." That was more than five years ago.
I think the statistic is 20% of people who divorce remarry each other.
