Im not quick to give up, but another few weeks of this and I just may.
Please don't do anything right now, dig down for some more patience. I know it is hard but I think everything is perfectly normal for this stage of the crisis. He has got to get this stuff out and he is revisiting the teenage years which sounds crazy but is a necessary step for him to complete his crisis. I do not think he is revisiting replay and he is telling you in what he said to you what is happening. You are NOT going crazy everything is going to be perfectly fine. You just must continue to have patience.
