You have a YEAR to worry about these things. And if the Retrouvaille and/or the MC works, then all that may just go away. So don't think about it now. You will need to talk to someone about what to expect if you get divorced, and make sure that she knows that she is not going to take advantage of you. Fair means fair to both people. I don't think this is the first divorce in the state of NC, so they have things pretty worked out before you ever put yourselves into the system.
