You know your wife, I don't. So I can't advise you there. And she may not think of you, but your son will. And you may have to demand your right to see your son 50% of the time. So getting that through a mediator before she moves out might be worthwhile.
That's the problem with divorce when you have kids. You really can't ever be rid of the spouse. She will have to see you whether she likes it or not.
Is she having an affair? The Retrouvaille people will ask both of you that question before they take the registration.
