Yes, you are putting all your hopes on these things. But they can succeed. My husband was ready to leave me when we walked in the door at Retrouvaille. We were not committed to doing the whole program. We both said "just the weekend, then we will see about doing the rest". When the weekend was over, we were hooked. We couldn't wait for the post sessions.
You will be alright. Let her move out if that's what she really wants. She will see that your son misses you. She's not the only parent. Sometimes a little distance does help the heart to grow fonder.
