How To Tell The Kids

[Ready2Change]

So help me figure this one out.

OK.

I work-up the nerve to ask her what is going on this weekend. She says she has her son and doesn't have time to go out. I ask her when she does have time and she says hardly ever. So I ask her if she would like to go out some time when she has time? She says, to the bars? I say the bars, a movie, whatever she'd like to do.

This is not leading.

Here is how I go about this:
1) Get a local paper, find out what is going on this weekend.
2) Decide on one or two things that sound interesting to YOU.
3) Plan on going to one or more of these events alone.
4) If opportunity presents itself during conversation:


me: "So what are you up to this weekend?"
her: "Not sure, what about you?"
me: "I haven't decided, I hear there are still STP tickets available"
her: "I love stp"
me: "They are great in concert, but there is an art show at the same time with wine tasting that I might go to instead"

At this point, she should give you her opinions...This is when you learn about her.

She says, I have a boyfriend. I already knew this, because I heard her complaining about him one night when she was loaded.

Things for you to think about: What was she complaining about? She gave you gold nuggets of information...Are these qualities you have or would like to have?

I guess I will continue to go to see her anyway because she is very nice and I like to look at her. Maybe things will change, but I won't count on it.

Perseverance = contently waiting.

I guess I just don't understand women at all.

Each one is different, but each one is easily studied, and then you can "test" things on each new one....Make it fun. Draw them to you.....