I got back home tonight. She said we need to talk.
She said, "I have made my mind up. I am going to leave you. I do not want to try anymore. I can not try anymore. I do not want to be married to you anymore."
She said all of this very calmly and collectively.
She then said, "I want you to go to mediation with me. I will give you a few days to think about it, but if you don't decide to go, I will have to sue you."
OH MY GOD OH MY.
OH NO.
Oh god I am crying terribly I'm a freaking wreck.
I did the, "We don't have to go down this path - we just found a good MC, we haven't given it time."
She said, "I've done everything you've asked. Now I'm telling you what I want."
OH MY GOD. I'm so lost everyone. Oh no. I'm in shambles. I'm so screwed. What is going on? WHAT HAVE I DONE TO DESERVE THIS.
She then went into the guest room to sleep and told me not to bother her for the rest of the night. This is the first night she's slept away from me in another room in our house.
Dear Lord - what is going on???????? WHAT DO I DO?????
PLEASE PLEASE help me. What do I do???? What should I say????
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch
