Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[Faith2010]

I haven't been on the boards in a long, long time...when H moved out of the house my life turned upside down, as most of you can imagine.

H moved back in the house this past June. Things were smooth for a bit until I ran across some haunting e-mails he wrote to OW. In those e-mails I learned he had, in fact, met the OW. He insisted they didn't sleep together...that is until it came out in MC last month.

Icing on the cake...OW pretended to be her H and contacted me thru FB. It didn't take long to realize it was her. Next, she contacted me via e-mail, this time being herself and apologizing for her part in the affair. Within her apology, however, was how heartbroken she was that H broke it off and had he not confessed the affair to me they would still be together.

According to H, he has been trying to break it off for months. He ended up blocking her # from our phones but she still finds ways to call, text and e-mail. It's as if our lives are taking a turn towards "Fatal Attraction".

Meanwhile, H has still not learned to be completely honest. Additionally I can't get the image of the two of them together out of my head.

Sorry if I had anyone worried. Not my intention, just trying to survive. The story isn't over yet.

-Ash