How To Tell The Kids

[Ready2Change]

Red = bad
Green = good
Yellow = OK, but better choices

My W was angry with all my changes too.

Do not FEAR her anger. She wants you to calmly handle her anger....and keep doing the right thing.

W "Why are you doing this now? You never cared before!"
FOCK YOU
Me. " I didn't understand that these things were so important to you before."
"I am sorry you feel this way"
"I am sorry you feel I didn't care"

W. "See, you know how to do these things, you just chose not to do them before. That makes me even more upset."
W. "You ARE doing a lot more with the kids. Are you doing this just for me or because you want to."
Me. "What's the difference? I am doing what you asked."
"My relationship with my kids is very important"

I always thought I was doing the right things to support my family. Just shoot me now and put me out of my misery.

Yes, we all did the best we could with what we knew, we know different now. The illusion is gone. Time for changes. Keep doing the best you know how, learn from everything, and make more positive changes.

Getting turned down by blondie was a blow today. Things were looking so good. I guess they still are, but.....just not quite as good.

Do not take anything personally. Women will always test you. All rejection is good. Learn from it. Practice DB on her. Practice flirting. What did/are you doing to draw her to you? Timing is key. Be very aware of the hints she does / does not drop. You drop hints to, but do not be bold until the right moment. Put her into friend zone.

The lady I am currently with talked about "Muscle boy" the first few times we interacted. I was "alpha male" and did not let "that test" take me away from my goal...I showed interest, but did not act needy.... or pursue...UNTIL THE RIGHT MOMENT.

I was out one night, a "Hot Babe" asked me to buy her a drink, I responded "Absolutely...after you buy me one" her reply was "I like your style!"...


Study all women....