Relocated the family and he dropped the bomb

[steady]

MM78, if you haven't figured it out yet, this place is more about saving ourselves than our R. By saving us we put ourselves in the best position to be able to rescue our R.

You've been working at busting the A, now it's time to make MM78 into a strong, independent, happy person. That has a double win in it. First, you create a life where you are happy (that's the priority), second, you make yourself more attractive to your S. If you don't save your M you end up putting yourself in a better position to have a healthy R.

Once you're in order you add another person (your current H or someone else down the road) into your life as an addition and not as a center.