1)I moved 9 times in 11 years of marriage so H could keep moving up the ladder in his career, giving up my job willingly many times so he could reach his goals. Supported him spending thousands of dollars on his side business (show cattle) because I thought it would make him happy. Stuck with him through a 1 night stand, a short term affair, then finally the 3 yr debacle that ended our marriage. And he has the nerve to tell me "BBJ you never supported me or any of my goals or dreams. We would still be together if you cared, but you never did."
2)The time before I knew for sure there was an A, we were still married and living together, when I texted him begging him to come home and help me with the kids. I had gotten a MRSA/superbug staff infection in my back, had it opened up, cleaned out, and packed WITH the kids in the dr office bc he wouldn't come watch them. So that night I asked him to come home bc I needed to take my pain pills and wanted help w/the kids. He was out w "people from work" (ow) and did not come home untiil 2 a.m.
3)Just this summer we were at my son's baseball game. Now-ex handed me his camera and asked me to take pics. I glanced through it (he said I could as there were pics of my d's birthday party with his family) standing there among the other families and came across close up pictures of h's genitals and of him naked. Ick!!!! Thank goodness the other parents didn't see them...
