OK, how to deal with the control issue. I say you control everyone you possibly can until you wear yourself out. It's like smoking until you make yourself sick. Find new ways to control people you never even dreamed of controlling before. Wait for the Mailman each day and start telling him how to sort his mail. Start telling the clerk at the grocery store how to correctly pack groceries. Advise the cop how to write your traffic ticket appropriately. Tell your Pastor what the Bible really says! The possibilities are endless. No need to thank me, I'm just trying to control your controlling behaviour.
