Well people it gets better, I show up at W house, and send her a text that I am outside, she replies come in. I walk up and knock, being polite its not my house, the kids open the door and both jump on me. W asks me if i have plans tonight? I said yes I do. She said I am working at the daycare late and the kids want to spend the night with you, I said its short notice and I cannot cancel my plans. Then she goes inot the where, with who and how late? said a couple buddies, dont know yet and probably late yes. She tehn gets a phone call, and is on the phone forever, she has been in her house 2 days and the A/C went out it was like 90 degrees in there. was getting impatient and told S to go tell mommy we are leaving and you will se her in a little bit. He does that and I walk with them outside. She walks out and says" your not going to let me say bye?" I said you were on the phone and you will see them in 2 hours. She gives D a hug and kiss and stands there, I dont even look at her tickle my son and get in the drivers seat.
After the gym I took them over to the daycare and W is working. I drop them off give them hugs and as I am walking out W says " I booked a client at 7 AM tomorrow" I looked at her with a look that was basically "so" she said can you watch them, I looked at her and shook my head No. She got upset and started to ignore me and talk to the kids, I started to walk away and said "*****(her name) you need to figure it out" and left.
She keeps thinking that this new "life" that I am just going to enable her and make it easy for her, well I am not, I expect a lot of resentment and anger but I cant control that. I do not like my kids suffering but if I give in to make her life easier I am not doing this correctly. The next time we talk, my boundary is going to be this: You and I need to agree on things that work for both of our schedules, not just yours. I cannot be asked to do something to accomadate you on a seconds notice. She needs to learn that if she cant book a client at a certian time because of her schedule, she needs to book them when she knows I or someone can be with the kids. She has her head so far up her @ssright now, that the world revolves around her needs, Time for another reality check sister.....
