HEY GUYS, I NEED SOME ADVICE ON THIS ONE. Ok I asked W to meet up for coffee next week to talk. We both have to get better with schedules with our S. I also need to see if we are going to set up mediation as it’s a lot cheaper or if I should use my lawyer.
I’m trying to let her go & move forward I don’t think anything has changed except last week when I told her I was doing my best to move on. Maybe I was just reading into it. (Her Tears Boo Hoo)!! After we talk about our S; I have 2 thoughts & one is probably wrong; however this is it:
A: asking her if she had any second thoughts or doubts I guess that’s more for me (As I slipped up last month & asked if she had any doubts/2nd thought)? W said sometimes she thinks about it, but said we would probably be here in a few yrs. again!!
B: Tell her she is right I do deserve to be loved by someone who does love and care for me. I’m trying to hang in there and get nothing in return. (Kind of like the dog that keeps getting kicked & he keeps coming back for more) That’s Me. To be honest this is tough & the more we have been separated I’m not sure how I feel about you /us right now.
I don’t know if any of this would work or a combination of the 2. Don’t get me wrong I still love my W more than she knows, and want to make it work.
This communing week is our Anniversary so I made sure I had plans b/c she doesn’t seem to care. W is just as stubborn as me & once her mind is made up it’s almost set in stone.(Both kind of Mules)
It may take some more months or even a yr. or 2 but I think W will realize people can change & question what if? I know I have to watch my back b/c no one else will.
Well thanks for everyone’s input & advice it means a lot. Talk Later Hope
