new chapter with strange WAW

[BeingMe]

I see your problem ... disappointing the kids now, or disappointing them later when the Disney dream doesn't bring their parents back together. IMO, it would be prudent to go to Disney once you are a true family, reunited under one roof. Rather, let the children get used to separate holidays until then.

I say, stick to your boundaries ... your wife knows why you aren't going ... she ain't that stupid ... on the contrary, she is very clever and knows how to get her own way, and I am sure in normal circumstances that wouldn't be a problem, but now you are aware, and need to tread carefullly. If she asks again, just reply, "so OM is off your FB and we're going to date exclusively?" Or, just a "no" would suffice.

Take care.