So help me figure this one out. A couple of weeks ago I ask my new little blonde friend if she would like to go to the Stone Temple Pilots concert. She asks what day it is and says she will be out of town that day, but otherwise she would have gone. I talk to her after and ask how her time out of town was and she says it was good. She then asks about my vacation and even remembered where I was going. Told her the kids and I had a good time. We had a good conversation for a while and another patron comes into the restaurant.

She starts talking about her trip and how she and a friend took their kids. She as one 2 yr old son and HE has 2 kids. People where they were staying said you 2 certainly have your hands full! Then she says, but we aren't together or anything. I thought perhaps that was for my benefit.

So tonight I go back to see her. I'm there for about an hour chatting with her and others and I work-up the nerve to ask her what is going on this weekend. She says she has her son and doesn't have time to go out. I ask her when she does have time and she says hardly ever. So I ask her if she would like to go out some time when she has time? She says, to the bars? I say the bars, a movie, whatever she'd like to do.

She says, I have a boyfriend. I already knew this, because I heard her complaining about him one night when she was loaded. I said, oh, you said something about going to the STP show, so I didn't know. She said, that would have been fun, who went. I told her and blah blah blah.

Why would she say she would go to a concert with me, but then turn me down for a different date? Did I F something up here? Feels just like it did when I was 19.

I guess I will continue to go to see her anyway because she is very nice and I like to look at her. Maybe things will change, but I won't count on it.

I guess I just don't understand women at all.