Sorry you are here and I'm glad you are getting good advice. That rollercoaster you mentioned a post or two back in the one I have been on for 6months. How BAD do you want it to get before you let go? Believe me, if you don''t stick to this plan things just get worse and worse.
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369