Thanks, Jeff, for putting all those thoughts out there for me!
I agree 110% there is no right way to do "this" (wouldn't it be GREAT if there was?!).
You just seem so open to the process and getting to know somebody and you seem to do it with great ease. I am in this mental trap of freaking out when I think too much then freaking out when I don't think too much. I am more prone to say YIKES this won't work because of ONE stupid thing rather than say WOW this might be very cool because of lots of good things.
I realize this is all my own doing and only I can put a stop to this ridiculous behavior but it's really challenging for me.
So what I am saying (if you can even keep up with all my BS, lol!) is that I admire you because you seem to be able to see the big picture of a person rather than honing in on one "red flag".
Like I wonder how somebody could think I am one way even though it is so NOT me. Then I realize, well, DUH, *let* them get to know you before you just run away because of one odd comment.
You and Kerry especially seem to just go with the flow. I would like to NOT freak out!
