...it wouldn't surprise me if she's given some of the money to support OM.
On to a different topic. I thought about the home makeover situation. Here's a suggestion: Get brand new bed sheets and bed cover now if you can. It seems to me that most women have an emotional attachment to the bedroom. If you change the whole look of the bedroom, it will shock her into the realization that you are moving on. That is a great example of detaching and dropping the rope.
