My concerns are now that I have completely detached from her how would we began to reconcile if I wanted to??
Will.
When Coach and I started put things back together, he was knee deep in the detachment process and I, of course, was the walk-away so we all know that I was detached. It was Will on my part, after making the decision with Coach to reconcile to tie my life back to his life. And he gave me GREAT advice - he told me that it would take one month per every year we were married to heal our R. So I was aware of the need to be patient with him and with myself. He has been patient, as well. Reconciliation is not for wimps. Attitude is EVERYTHING.
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