How To Tell The Kids

[Ready2Change]

I understand, but then I guess I don't know what to do. I thought I was doing what she wanted me to do, but it didn't help. Just made things worse.

I would like to suggest that this did not make things worse. It may have made her ANGRY. Maybe she thinks "Why the F is he spending more time with the kids NOW!!!" (or whatever changes you are making) and that makes her angry and question if she is doing the right thing by D you.

I guess this maybe underscores the fact that I just let her go until she asks for help. The only problem with that is she never asked before either. When I questioned her why she didn't ask for help, her response was "I shouldn't have to."

Generally, men like to be asked if they need help. Women all jump in and help each other. She gave you a nugget of gold on what she wants. Don't ask her anymore. Just do the right thing.

MsR2C was angry with all my changes..The dishwasher police never arrived and arrested me for loading the dishwasher MY WAY...I showed her my changes without telling....I took away all the reasons...she D me anyway...that doesn't mean yours will....