he has an addiction to the OW. the only cure is to cut off the source of the addiction. as long as she is in the picture you don't have a real M. the boundary is about behavior and the consequences of him continuing his behavior. it's healthy for everyone.
this isn't easy or fun, it will help define what kind of woman you are.
you can handle it.
cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
