I guess what I find confusing is (if I am remembering this correctly) your W said a few days (weeks?) ago that the two of you had to really make your R less exposed to the children because they really were having false hope. Yet she wants you to go on vacation with her and the children? If she feels it is best to keep your daily exchanges more private then how in the world is going on VACATION in line with desire?
I guess what I am asking is it really about OM or is it more about you and your W "acting" more divorced so your children don't always think you are getting back together?
