Relocated the family and he dropped the bomb

[MM78]

I see that it was too much. This is all so much to handle, comprehend, and act in the 'correct' way. He just spent all weekend with her and came home and said he realizes there is nothing back in our home state left for him anymore. I took that as he wanted to work on the family. But he never did cut off contact. I guess I need to go back to the saying on here that says believe none of what they tell you. His actions are saying he doesn't want to work on things.