Soleil yes I have found a storage unit. Ande it does feel good to share the wisdom and tactics found here. W did send me a text today, asking since she has rearranged her work schedule can I pick S up 2 days a week at 2pm and drop him off at daycare. I told her it depends on what job i take and what my hours will be. She replied Ok, let me know I can make other arrangements. I did not respond back to that conversation anymore. I am not trying to use the kids and of course I want to see them as much as possible, but at the same time I cannot be her fallback, not really as far as the M, but her on call person to work with her schedule in regards to the kids. I will let her sit and think about it for a while.
I then sent her a text that I need the kids SS#s for health insurance forms. And also told her I wanted to take them to the gym and that I would pick them up before 4 and drop them at the daycare where I think she is working until 12 otnight.
I on the other hand am going to go out with buddies and check out the nightlife which I havent done in a while.
I need to stay patient and persistent with my actions, very tough, but really no other choice right now. It gets tough when the WAW just acts like none of this bothers her. I almost regret giving in to the hug the other day, she seemed to enjoy it more than me, and I cannot make her feel like I will be here to be her soft cushion any longer.
She has been off work for most of the day I think, and has not made any effort to get the rest of her stuff, this is typical of her, she moves 60% of her stuff in 2 days then leaves the other stuff for the last couple of days, its lke she jumps in the pool and swims 90 mph half of the way, then stops and treads water.
