Most of the time, yes--a crisis causes me to focus. It's a codependent/ACOA thing. That's why I worked years in the ER, on a medevac helicopter, pediatric intensive care, even taught paramedics--helping other people know how to deal with crisis! truly, sometimes I have wondered over the past couple of years, if I create a crisis where there isn't one just so I know how to respond. "normal" life is a mystery to me at this point!


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012