I understand, but then I guess I don't know what to do. I thought I was doing what she wanted me to do, but it didn't help. Just made things worse.
I guess this maybe underscores the fact that I just let her go until she asks for help. The only problem with that is she never asked before either. When I questioned her why she didn't ask for help, her response was "I shouldn't have to."
Thanks for the input CG and everyone else. I'll keep you all posted.