Well, the friend is coming, I need to learn to accept support.

I called H to tell him and we had an intersting conversation. We are trying to work the logistics of telling the kids and when he is leaving and moving out. He was talking about delaying it (until Wednesday or something, not to see how the R goes), and I said no, do it now and he said, "so you wan't me to leave?" I said, no, I want you to stay and make this M work. I want you to stop seeing her and put this family back together, it will be hard, but nothing worthwhile is easy. That is what I want. But it is not fair to me to live with my husband when he is seeing someone else. He hesitated, which is the first heistation I have heard. But, I didn't LBP it, I didn't hide from what I wanted and I think I let him know I can't be treated so unfairly. He even thanked me for a good conversation.

I think I did good.


Me 48, H49, M24, S14, S11
DB #1 4/2002-8/2003
Bomb #2 August 2010 & he moved out
Living with OW