honestly, John, you are concerned and making boundaries over the mundane and namby-pamby over those that matter. 3 EAs in a couple of years, meeting up with some dude from class behind your back is a big deal. Not being able figure out what to do on a friday night is not.

Now she could be sex texting some guys she could be not. I guess it really doesnt matter. It worked to open your eyes.

Her boundaries are ridiculous. You should be able to break one of them tonight.