PMA - you're right. I have to break the cycle, or we'll just inevitably repeat it.
Went home for lunch and took you guy's advice. I check all her stuff, she's clean.
She asked me when I was leaving if I went through her phone, I actually didn't. She said "are you sure"? I said, yes, I am sure I did not go through you're phone. She said, "I'm not doing anything!"
I replied with, "Frankly, I don't care anymore if you are." = letting go of control. It felt good to say that.
And she seemed dumbfounded. Then I left for work.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch