The thing is...I AM ok with what he's doing right now. Well, this week anyway! He's come home from work and been engaged with the family. He's been helpful - he's talked a lot and played XBox very little... he planned the trip up to see D and asked me to go... he's friendly and upbeat... asked me to the movies last night... had a good time....
SOOO... makes it hard to not be OK with sex. But, I guess if he's still not saying he's 100% committed to saving the M than it shouldn't be OK even though he's acting OK, huh?