Originally Posted By: Allen A
Hmmm... I dunno, as long as he is doing this "I might leave" thing I would not be getting physical with him.. and I would make him aware of that...

Just tell him you aren't about to hop into bed with someone who is threatening to abandon his family ... Just tell him that's not "sexy" whatsoever...


Well, he's totally backed off the "might leave" bit and is willing to work on things. However, working on things and being committed to the M are 2 different things - as we know. His actions say he's not going anywhere, quite frankly. (I've always been told to listen to actions more than words.) His words - well, he's not saying much. He's way too prideful, for one thing, to say he was wrong and others were right... Now that he's not engaged in getting his needs met outside the R, I think he's finding his feelings towards me are better. Heck, he's not even holed up playing XBox nearly as much, esp. this week. SO.... definitely some positives here. BUT...I do know to be careful. I'm a passionate person so it's hard for me to abstain in the physical dept. crazy BUT...I will take advice and follow it! I know better than to trust my instincts.