it's that cycle of .. if i get on his mom's good side, it will involve enabling her destructive behaviour. which is hurting those around her.
i don't know if i have it in me to be a door mat to his mom's manipulative ways. the minute i enforce my boundaries on her, she will go crying to my h and say that i'm mean and threatening when she's only trying to help.
the person who needs the most help is my h and have him see that i wasn't unreasonable. i was actually quite accomodating already. bring in an OW if you want .. see if she will put up with that kind of behaviour. most women would punch back.
