"I need to focus on my own priorities that need attention. The house sale is not a high priority." If W pushes and persists, simply tell her "I am sorry that you feel this way. You are going have to make the contacts yourself." Keep reminding yourself that the onus is on W to do the leg work.
Ok. Leave it alone.
Originally Posted By: Wonka
As for the truck, I would not contact W until you resolve the insurance issue yourself and see if you can take over the lease. I do not see the urgency in this matter at the moment.
I have my own vehicles. Mine. I have no need for the truck. It was purchasd as "the family" vehicle. I don't need the payment; don't want to pay my share anymore; she needs to cut her costs too. Though it will save her some money, it'll be a drop in her standards and STILL not enough savings for her to get ahead. Plus, regardless of the endgame, truck has to go. However, any savings in the truck for her will be eaten by the insurance if she's off my policy. But I'm still ahead.