I think you should go back and read Kevin4Dallas thread. YOU are sounding just like him.

He kept on doing is own thing and ignoring all of our advice. After about 2 years he finally figured it out. Hopefully YOU will too.

Until YOU decide to BREAK THE CODEPENDENT R YOU GUYS R IN. YOU are doomed to repeat. YOU talk about how strong you used to be when you were single. What changed? I sure haven't seen it. You both sound very insecure and needy. Coach nailed it with the "father figure" role you are playing. She definitely has issues to work on.

Unfortunately, YOU are going to find yourself alone on this thread very quickly.

Good Luck.

PMA